I took off from my home in Arizona for a one week vacation during spring 2007. The final three days was spent visiting my aunt and cousin, who lived in Oklahoma. Again, it had been nine years since seeing these family members.
In between Barb’s second and third divorcees, she lived with her daughter, my cousin Debra. Barb was still with Deb upon my visit and had plans of moving out. Deb did not mind her mom staying with her. This mother-daughter duo both obtained divorces one year apart in the early 1990s. Debra was awarded the house. Her two sons had already turned 18 and were out and on their own at the time of my visit.
As for Debra (everyone always referred to her as Deb), after her divorce she began playing around with lesbian sex and discovered it was for her. In the 15 years since becoming single, my cousin has gone through three girlfriends. The latest one lived with Deb and Barb. This is Charlene. She is about 30, blond and works as a nurse at the local hospital. Barb likes her daughter’s girlfriend and has no issue related to what her daughter chose to do.
As for Barb, she was curious and began playing around with same sex bedtime fun in between her own divorces following the second and third time. Deb help set up her mom with women. Barb played around also with three different women over the past 12 years or so. She, too, discovered the activity was cool and could see how a woman could become attracted to the activity. Both my cousin and aunt had the same mindset they are through with men in terms of emotional friendships. If time is going to be spent with a man, it was going to be for a fuckmate activity only and nothing else involved.
By the time of my visit in ’07, Barb had put her lesbian likes on hold. That involvement was drawing her to the point she could become a full fledge lesbian (just like her daughter became). Barb did not want to go that direction. Keep in mind that I held zero knowledge of all this involving my aunt prior to my vacation visit. Family knew about Debra’s likes as she was open and liberal about it. Some found it to be tasteless. I did not.
At the time in spring 2007, my age was 39, Deb 41 and Barb 62. Deb was employed as a topless dancer and had been doing the routine for about 15 years or so. At 41 she was still attractive on stage. Her stage name was “Daisy”. My cousin continued dancing until being removed from stage at age 47! Her goal was to quit at age 50. Following becoming forced-retired from topless dancing, “Daisy” became an escort provider, providing the adult services (30 or 60 minutes) for several years onward into her 50s.
My plan was to spend two nights with my family members before heading way out west for home. At this time, Barb worked an industry job five days a week, daytime. She hated it. Her plan was to work until 65, retire and then began collecting Social Security and Medicare.
When Barb comes home, she takes a bath and then lounges in something nice. Since this was early summertime, the normal attire is either a halter or a tanktop. Shorts and being barefoot round it out. This is Barb being Barb and not acting as flashy or such. Those days long ended.
I arrived at the house around 6:00. Charlene went in at 5:00 for a 12 hour all night shift. I just missed Deb as she went in at 6:00 and would dance until 2:00 closing time at the bar. It was just aunt and nephew all evening long with no distractions. Barb was happy to have expected company tonight.